I’m worried that I worry too much. Seriously. I’m a worrier. I worry about everything – big and small. Sometimes my mind gets so overwhelmed with all these worries that my brain starts to short circuit.
A partial list of things I’ve worried about in the past 24 hours:
– poop (well, actually lack thereof)
– the astronomical total due on our electric bill
– when i’m going to pack for our upcoming trip
– whether i’ll remember to pack everything we need for our upcoming trip
– if we’re going to be able to get our car’s AC fixed in time for upcoming trip
– if we can’t get AC fixed, whether it’s going to be too hot a drive for Spence
– why isn’t spence sleeping anymore? is something wrong?
– is it going to harm his development if he continues not to sleep?
– where are his teeth?
– if i’m being mean too my husband because i’m stressed from all this worry (yes!)
– i’m not keeping in touch with my sister. i should email. or call.
– i’m neglecting my bridesmaid duties. i should ask more questions about the wedding.
– if i’m going to be able to find a babysitter in washington dc. if not, what do we do that night?
– work. (big, huge issues that i can’t write about here)
– that i haven’t lost my baby weight yet. 9 months on, 9 months off. i only have 1 month left.
– that i sounded dumb in the podcast interview i did friday. i don’t want anyone to listen to it.
– i haven’t babyproofed the house yet.
– is the landlord going to raise our rent?
– do i watch too much tv?
– will anybody notice that i’m blogging instead of working? (esp worrying since i didn’t get in until 2 because my nanny called in sick)
Shall I continue? You get the point. That’s a lot of worries – some big, some small. But, all occupying valuable space in my noggin. I’m really good at prioritizing at work – it’s so easy for me. But, I can’t seem to prioritize the worries. Surely there’s some stuff I should let go. But it seems like once a thought gets in my head, it won’t budge.
I know I’m not going to change. I’m always going to be a worrier. I’m so jealous of the those happy-go-lucky types that do spontaneous things and worry about the consequences later. It seems like such a better way to live. I just need to find a way to manage the worries without getting to the point of total ugly breakdown. You know, days like today.