Last night "I'm going to burn this dress" was the thought circling through my brain as I stood up a little straighter and tried to think of any other reason why the woman on the subway had just offered me her seat. But, there is only one possible explanation – she thought I was pregnant.
I didn't take the seat, but as my husband quickly pointed out when I told him the story, I should have. If you're going to be offended and embarrassed, at least get a seat out of it. But, I didn't, I just stood and stewed and tried to come up with an alternate explanation.
If this had happened a month postpartum or even two, I would understand, but the thing is that I don't look pregnant now. I have a belly that I'm wishing away (yea, how's that working?), but it's not a pregnant belly, more like a squishy "I love food" belly. I've lost all but about 15 of the 60+ pounds I gained during the pregnancy so I've actually been feeling pretty good about the whole belly situation.
So, I return to the dress and place all blame squarely on its shoulders. Empire waistlines are NEVER a good idea. Burn the dress.