I remember the first time I was able to dream after Spencer was born. It was a big milestone because for months my sleep had been so sporadic and interrupted that I didn’t have time to dream.
Last night as I lay in bed unable to sleep, I composed blog posts in my mind for the first time in several weeks. Writing in my mind is my way of organizing my thoughts. Sometimes the writing makes it into this blog and other times it just helps me understand and compartmentalize my thoughts. While I’m tired today because I spent too much time mind writing, I’m also happy about this breakthrough. My brain has been full of fuzz and I haven’t been able to make sense of my own thoughts. Last night, they started making some sense.
As I lay there, I came up with an analogy for how I’m feeling. I’m not feeling broken anymore. Just stretched. I’m still scattered and probably definitely trying to do too much. But, the brittleness is gone. I’m not as fragile as I was, but I’m still not quite whole. I’m on the mend.
I thought about some of the posts I might have written had I been feeling better…
- There’d be the one about how Spencer took a dive off the couch and fell face first onto the floor when I left him unattended. And how I knew he was going to be fine even as he screamed in my arms, but I was deeply embarrassed the nanny had been there to witness my mistake.
- And another about my rather desperate search to book any kind of vacation for Christmas week because I might wither and die from the travel bug if I don’t stay in a hotel soon. We’re going to Philadelphia for 3 days. It’s not glam. But, it’s away from responsibilities and only a short drive with our carsicky son.
- And I’d try to give some sort of insightful analysis into this movie. I think I liked it. It’s certainly stuck with me. It was just different from other movies and I can’t quite put my finger on why.
- How I’m trying to be patient while I wait for Spencer to start walking. Everyone says to enjoy the time pre-walking and I can understand why that is the case. But, he’s been so close for so long and I can’t wait to see him waddling around!